sorry to waste your guys brainpower you guys have more knowledge on this stuff than me.. i am learning a lot btw tho!
looked at the itunes helper.. Mdnsresponder.. and applemobiledevices
you guys have more of a trained eye than me i have no idea what im looking at.. but i am learning.. THX!
im going to google mdsnresponder. have never heard of that.
ha i gotta turn my firewall back on.. you guys are going to hax my machine

this is the output for the netstat -ab command
Active Connections
Proto Local Address Foreign Address State PID
TCP w:epmap w:0 LISTENING 1172
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\RPCRT4.dll
c:\windows\system32\rpcss.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\svchost.exe
-- unknown component(s) --
[svchost.exe]
TCP w:microsoft-ds w:0 LISTENING 4
[System]
TCP w:1034 w:0 LISTENING 996
[alg.exe]
TCP w:5152 w:0 LISTENING 1228
[jqs.exe]
TCP w:5354 w:0 LISTENING 796
[mDNSResponder.exe]
TCP w:27015 w:0 LISTENING 784
[AppleMobileDeviceService.exe]
TCP w:netbios-ssn w:0 LISTENING 4
[System]
TCP w:1032 localhost:27015 ESTABLISHED 2856
[iTunesHelper.exe]
TCP w:27015 localhost:1032 ESTABLISHED 784
[AppleMobileDeviceService.exe]
TCP w:5152 localhost:1100 CLOSE_WAIT 1228
[jqs.exe]
TCP w:1592 208.48.254.89:http CLOSE_WAIT 1364
[FrameworkService.exe]
UDP w:isakmp *:* 948
[lsass.exe]
UDP w:microsoft-ds *:* 4
[System]
UDP w:4500 *:* 948
[lsass.exe]
UDP w:56792 *:* 796
[mDNSResponder.exe]
UDP w:1025 *:* 796
[mDNSResponder.exe]
UDP w:ntp *:* 1264
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
c:\windows\system32\w32time.dll
ntdll.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\kernel32.dll
[svchost.exe]
UDP w:1900 *:* 1456
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
c:\windows\system32\ssdpsrv.dll
ntdll.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\kernel32.dll
[svchost.exe]
UDP w:2032 *:* 1264
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\WLDAP32.dll
C:\WINDOWS\System32\winrnr.dll
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
c:\windows\system32\w32time.dll
-- unknown component(s) --
[svchost.exe]
UDP w:netbios-dgm *:* 4
[System]
UDP w:1900 *:* 1456
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
c:\windows\system32\ssdpsrv.dll
ntdll.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\kernel32.dll
[svchost.exe]
UDP w:netbios-ns *:* 4
[System]
UDP w:5353 *:* 796
[mDNSResponder.exe]
UDP w:ntp *:* 1264
c:\windows\system32\WS2_32.dll
c:\windows\system32\w32time.dll
ntdll.dll
C:\WINDOWS\system32\kernel32.dll
[svchost.exe]